15 year old dating a 20 year old
You allowed her to create a relationship with this boy and now you need to respect that relationship.
If you do not, she is going to learn that you don't respect her feelings - they don't matter to you, she has to fight you to get what she wants and that love is hurtful. I don't think she is just saying she hates you or that she thinks you hate her, she is most likely feeling a little bit of it.
There are so many issues coming around the corner for her in the next year and she is going to need you if she is going to be able to get through them with a happy and healthy attitude.
In order to make the right choices for herself - and she has a lot of potential - she is going to need a strong foundation with you.
So, let's piece the rift back together: Talk to her.Every situation is going to be different and how parents handle their daughter's dating relationships is going to be up to them.Let's look at the advice given by parents in two real life examples.The young couple broke up but quickly got back together.It wasn't long before the teen's mother became worried.